When Sorry Is the Wrong Word: Exploring Rejection
It hurts to be told “no.” Even if you are being rejected by a computer or a group of people you dislike, you still feel the pain of rejection. Not only does it hurt, but there can also be significant down-stream consequences: one study found that thirteen out of fifteen school shooters were rejected at some point. It also has an effect on our physical response with noticeable drops in immune function.
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